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The Greatest Generation

“Black is her beauty. Her soul of gold.”Meshell Ndegeocello, Black is the Color of My True Love’s Hair

I was reminded today through the many articles and social media posts* and, most significantly, by NPR’s Code Switch’s Today in 1963 twitter account that the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom was about more than the speech. It was about more than the spectacle.

The March on Washington was about the radical notion that the United States of America should be in the business of protecting, supporting, and honoring the freedoms of all it’s citizens.

There were demands, ten of them, that, in large part, were acted upon within the next five years. That’s pretty amazing. We can argue about the effectiveness of how the government chose to enforce and implement these laws. We can argue about whether legislative victories are enough to combat the seeming endless font of despair and awfulness that is American racism. We cannot argue, however, on the effectiveness of the Civil Rights Movement and of this event.

These people—diverse in thought, approach, age, religion, race, sexuality but common in heart and conviction—were badass.

Tom Brokaw may have dubbed The World War II era as The Greatest Generation but, being born 12 years after the March, I’ll take these folks.

And I’ll appreciate Dr. King’s beautiful, powerful words but I’ll thank them all for the hard work they put in on changing a society hell bent on not budging.

 *Some of which I captured on my tumblr today

An Inconvenient Truth

“Then I’ll dig a tunnel from my window to yours.”Arcade Fire, Neighborhood #1 (Tunnels)

“Always go to the funeral” means that I have to do the right thing when I really, really don’t feel like it. I have to remind myself of it when I could make some small gesture, but I don’t really have to and I definitely don’t want to. I’m talking about those things that represent only inconvenience to me, but the world to the other guy. You know, the painfully under-attended birthday party. The hospital visit during happy hour. The Shiva call for one of my ex’s uncles. In my humdrum life, the daily battle hasn’t been good versus evil. It’s hardly so epic. Most days, my real battle is doing good versus doing nothing.

Deirdre Sullivan*

I didn’t go to the funeral. My uncle died a few weeks ago and I didn’t go. My reasons for not attending were legitimate and understandable. I sent bouquets—the only flowers at the ceremony—but I wasn’t physically there.

This isn’t a guilty confession but an acknowledgment that I don’t always do the most good. Sometimes I do the amount of good I can get away with.

I don’t make many phone calls because they are inconvenient to me. I know what they mean to those folks who most appreciate phone calls, like grandmothers, and yet…

One of the the conversations I’ve been having with myself lately is around how you know you’re a grown-up? What, in fact, it means to be a grown-up at all. Halfway to my 39th birthday and I pretend like I don’t really have a clue.

That’s not true. Maybe what it means to be a grown-up is to allow yourself to be inconvenienced by the greater good. To put yourself out. To be less comfortable so that others can be more comfortable.

To always attend the funeral. And send the card. And go when invited. And pick up the phone.

Small inconveniences can have big impacts. And, even if they don’t, so what? 

What does a kindness cost you?

*Thanks Potluck. I hadn’t been there in awhile and this was the fifth link shared with me. It saved me from writing about the VMAs. #whatevermileycyrus

 

Do You Pray?

“Just outrun the demons, could you?”Frank Ocean, Bad Religion

I do and I don’t know what to make of it, because I feel like a hypocrite. But I only do it when I’m at my most scared or my most fearful … and my most vulnerable. I don’t know what to do with that because it really does not align with anything that I’ve said all day today, yet I still find myself doing that. – Kyle Simpson in NPR’s On Religion, Some Young People Show Both Doubt And Respect

I’ve prayed several times over the last month. Any time I hear a siren, I take a moment to think, “may they reach their destination  in time and may those in need have it.” When I know I’m powerless to change someone else’s condition, I pray they find comfort, serenity, joy, and strength. I prayed for all those moved by the passing of my father-in-law sending out both a kind of spiritual hug and thoughts of gratitude for those who sought to ease the pain for those I love so dearly. I prayed for myself. For a good night’s sleep. For empathy. For solace.

I didn’t pray to a g-d, though. At least, I don’t see it that way.  I refer you back to Faith. I prayed because I believe our thoughts matter. I prayed because I do feel a connectedness and rhythm to the life and that maybe, just maybe, good thoughts, strong thoughts, powerful thoughts can nudge us all a little more towards right. In some previous location of my writing, I’ve mentioned a gift from my friend, Michelle: The Book of Jewish Values by Rabbi Joseph Telushkin. The very first lesson is what to do when Hearing a Siren. I think about it daily. We love by what we do to and for others but we also love by recognizing that we are all linked.

In the last two weeks, I’ve been reminded in the best ways of this connection. No matter the differences in beliefs, I felt akin to those grieving with me. Appreciative. Sympathetic.

And so I prayed.